Things have to get better; the way we look out for each other has to get better someway, somehow. We fail to realize what our colleagues go through as a result of our own actions; what we say to them, how we treat them and what we call them. The mind is very powerful but also very vulnerable. Sometimes we overrate it’s power so much that we without realizing underestimate its vulnerability. Constant criticisms and false judgments can affect someone emotionally and mentally. It’s sad we don’t realize the consequences of our actions till we drive people to do the unthinkable. We don’t know what others are going through and we dump our heart-crushing comments on them with regards to how they live their lives expecting them to change because we say so. No it doesn’t work that way.

If we the critics don’t even care just a little about how they feel concerning the emotional stress they get from all the criticisms eventually they the ones receiving the criticisms would have to build a defense mechanism and that’s the abstract wall they build between them and society. Cutting all their connections is the only way to prevent their stress from exacerbating. We don’t know what caused them to behave the way they behave and as rational beings we’d have to inquire and find out how best we can help them instead of gossiping about them because that won’t change a thing. It’d be equal to keeping our mouths shut and minding our own business.When we judge people we’re just stripping ourselves short of the grace of God upon our lives because it says clearly in the Bible that we as humans shouldn’t judge others because we’re not perfect and in fact we can never be. We are all handicap in certain criteria of our lives but we all have the full capacity to support each other, to be there for those who are suffering, to be there for those who have been hurt so much that they are scared of living and YES, believe me. There are people who fall in this category. Not everything is as it seems and not everyone is how they look. Everyone is fighting a battle within them……..”Remember there’s more to life than social acceptance. Aim for peace even if it means you’re going to be left alone. Learn to enjoy your own company. At least that way you don’t have to fear criticisms, society will always judge nevertheless. Just do you regardless because YOU ARE ENOUGH.”